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/Sounds like "BLAHCK" (as in "blah") + "KAHT" (as in "car") + "heerl" (as in "he") + "FRYEHND"/

Meaning

A girlfriend archetype from social media: independent, mysterious, and selective - compared to a black cat. Usually paired with the golden retriever boyfriend (enthusiastic and devoted). Popular relationship meme across Latin America and Spain.

Examples

She's the black cat girlfriend and he's the golden retriever.

I'm more of a black cat girlfriend - I don't chase anyone.

Regional synonyms

A Guaraní expression meaning "my friend" or "my buddy," used in Paraguay as a warm, familiar way to address someone close. It combines "che" (my) and "ra'a" (friend or companion). You hear it on soccer fields, at barbecues, in WhatsApp voice notes, and between coworkers. "Ey chera'a" is the Paraguayan equivalent of "hey bro" or "hey man" in English.