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/Sounds like "BLAHCK" (as in "blah") + "KAHT" (as in "car") + "heerl" (as in "he") + "FRYEHND"/

Meaning

A girlfriend archetype from social media: independent, mysterious, and selective - compared to a black cat. Usually paired with the golden retriever boyfriend (enthusiastic and devoted). Popular relationship meme across Latin America and Spain.

Examples

She's the black cat girlfriend and he's the golden retriever.

I'm more of a black cat girlfriend - I don't chase anyone.

Regional synonyms

To make someone feel sad or discouraged, to provoke a heaviness in them that drains their motivation and energy. In Mexico, 'aguitarse' refers to that profound sadness that leaves you feeling listless and disinclined to do anything.